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How to get an ex back and rebuild a relationship.

Hi my name is Paul and over the last forty years I have been married once and have had two other long term relationships.
During those years I have managed to mature not only in body but in my attitude to life.

When we are young we tend to be rather hot headed and say a lot of hurtful things that in hindsight we should not have.
When my now partner of 26 years gets too much I go to my office in our spare room and write about it. I have suggested to others in my family to do the same or take a walk, paint the fence or take the dog for a walk. Believe me it does work.

What I am trying to say is that it is better to walk away and sulk for a while than to let the tensions lead to further acrimonious rows.


The Best Part is making up.
No matter how stupid the cause of the argument it is never too late to say you are sorry. I always make a point of kissing my partner after any argument, even though she is generally at fault, because all I want is a quiet life.
This may sound silly and old fashioned but a kiss and a cuddle can work wonders.

I have a wonderful family including my own children and grandchildren I am lucky and blessed.
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